Before I launch into the post, I wanted to say that I’ve tried to reply to the comments Skye and Anonymous left on the last post Terminology. WordPress has not cooperated. So, Anonymous, thank you for the different perspective on use of the word “thick” and that it might not be meant in a derogatory fashion. Skye, it’s good for us all to remember that thin people can be picked on or insulted too with different terminology. Thank you!
So, this could be a TMI type of post. My skin sag is really noticeable in some parts of my body — upper arms and my thighs to be exact. Sure, I see it in my stomach region, but most of the time I can cover up that area. I’m sure my butt cheeks are probably sagging, too, but that problem is behind me. 😉 Out of sight, out of mind, you know?
Living here in the land of warmth, 10 1/2 months of the year I wear shorts and capri length pants. I purposely stay away from short shorts so, thankfully, I’m probably the person most aware of the epidermal bagginess. My arms are more difficult to conceal, particularly in Ladies tops. I’m okay in a unisex T-shirt but I’ve discovered that the sleeves of Ladies garments are definitely shorter. I’ve started to look for things with 3/4 length sleeves to cover the problem.
I don’t even know if other people truly notice. It’s enough that I now do. Without stressing myself out too much, I am always aware of the areas and want to camouflage them. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not complaining, or at least not much. All in all, saggy skin because of tremendous weight loss is a great problem to endure.
I know eventually I will have reconstructive surgery. This always brings up sort of a macabre thought of the serial killer in Silence of the Lambs who wants to harvest skin from size 14 young women so he can make himself a skin suit. Anybody who wants my excess can have it — providing, of course, that they don’t try to slice it off of me themselves but leave it up to a skilled surgeon in a sterile operating room while I’m under anesthesia.
Sooner or later I’m going to research the actual procedure or procedures. Think anybody’s put one up on YouTube yet? Come to think of it, I only want to know the results and not the cut by stitch, cut by stitch process to tighten and remove the sagging bags. I’ve heard that I can donate the skin to help burn victims. Need to check out whether that’s true. I’d do it in a heartbeat. After all, i don’t need it anymore, so if it can aid someone else, so much the better.
What I really want to know is how soon I can undergo the operation(s). I’ve heard that I need to wait for a full year after I reach goal weight. (Okay, at this point I honestly do need to indulge in a slight whine. A whole year?) I read somewhere else that a surgeon won’t do it until I’ve been at goal weight at least three months. That’s a little less whine-inducing timeline.)
I get why I’ll have to wait for at least some number of months. I’m sure that medical staff will want me to demonstrate that I can keep off the weight that I’ve lost or at least give me some time to stabilize in maintenance. I suppose the best thing for me to do is not obsess over it at this point but accept that I won’t hit goal weight one day and be able to schedule surgery for the next.
Unfortunately, I also don’t think that all of the problems will be address in a single procedure. That sort of stinks. Despite the possible elevated pain, I’d rather do as much as possible under one anesthesia experience.
Okay, I am beginning to obsess. This isn’t good. Instead, I’m going to do some constructive thinking and planning. I’ll seek out reliable information. I have a follow up with my surgeon in a couple of weeks, I’ll just ask. If it truly is a year’s wait, then I’ll rely on the Serenity Prayer to accept what I can’t change. That’s much more sensible than creating upset and drama, right?
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It will be worth the wait!
It’s more sensible, but not easier. So it’s okay to whine here, as long as you are then able to rely on the Serenity Prayer for afterward. 🙂 As someone who is highly prone to being dramatic (although I have been getting it a bit more under control in recent years!), I totally understand the pull. 😀
It does stink that they cannot do all the reconstructive work at one time, but it makes some sense. But I totally understand your not wanting to go under anesthesia more than once. It made me very nervous going under for my appendix.
So I’ll just send along my wishes for things moving along the best possible way, and for more serenity for you!
Thanks, Skye. Serenity over situations really does make the path easier.